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demolition-lovers
writes:Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character.But students can't do anything about it.So their own passion is locked away in a box. And over time it doesn't go away, but expands. And continues but this box doesn't get any bigger. They develop more feelings. They can't keep it in.Eventually this box will explode...A mix of emotions go through their heads. Some actually do care about their teachers. They care that they're happy. They want to look after them. They want to be there.They want to mean something to them. They want them to care and they can't get it out of their heads. Until eventually all the suffering previously is wasted on them leaving them forever...I don't believe students and teachers have the brightest of futures even if they do end up together. Things might not work out, partly do to the social image on them. How other people look on them...Its easy to fall for your teacher, and most have at one point. Serious or not. There is no solution to it either. Teachers are just fantastic people who attract people who are growing up.but people have to start understanding that it is hard for the pupil as well, it can be very painful for them, and they don't need people telling them not to do something they weren't planning on doing. I am not specifically aiming at any particular people who answer these sorts of questions. I am simply saying. Have empathy.And trust me, being totally in love with your teacher that hurts...when all u can think of everyday,in school, when you go anywhere is your teacher..and then one day they move school and all is left a brokened heart which hurts alot..so what are people's Opinons?Thanks. Reply to this Article
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reader, Hopeless Happiness. +, writes (11 July 2009):
People judge without knowing.
I understand, I've done it. And i'm in this situation!
It's the hardest, most painful thing ever.
And i really wouldn't wish it upon anyone, I just had no idea this many were feeling the same thing.
:( x
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reader, Angels Eyes +, writes (8 June 2009):
 I completely 100% agree with you, pupils have a really hard time liking/fancying/loving their teacher!
From a personal experience it is the hardest thing I ahve ever went through it was a struggle from the day I met him till the day he left a year later and I still have that struggle getting over him even though it's gonna be a year in three weeks! Seeing him walk through the doors everyday five days a week and knowing that I can have nothing to do with him is heartbreaking!
The worst part is saying goodbye to them or just watching them leave it's just heartbreaking for anyone in the position!
People helping or giving advice on these questions have to bear in mind feelings and have sypathy and don't just dive in saying it's stupid he's your teacher get over it!!
It's not that easy believe me!
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reader, xCharliix +, writes (25 April 2009):
 completely. 100% true. couldn't have put it better myself.
It's hell. simple as that..
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (20 April 2009):
 I completely agree with this, pupils have a very hard time when it comes to being in love with a teacher. From personal experience, I can honestly say that throughout the period I was at the school, seeing this particular teacher everyday until the day I left... was the worst period of my life I've ever had! To those who have not had the experience, it is literally unbearable.. it can even lead to depression because it is not possible for us to be with the teacher, partly due to them having their own families but more so because of their status, a person of trust and authority. The hardest thing ever, is to let them go. Letting go of someone you love and know you can never be with is absolutely heartbreaking.
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reader, xCharliix +, writes (20 April 2009):
i am in that situation.. i'm feel very strong feelings for my teacher.. and you hit it right on the nail with the box thing.. that's exactly what it's like.. over time it feelings don't go away.but just expand.. ive liked my teacher for about 7 months now.. and nothings changed.. except they have got stronger and i really care for him now.. i do anything to get him to notice me.. well not anything but you know what i mean.. i want him to think of me like i think of him
and i know exactly what you mean- a lot of people have a go at people like me, sayin it;s stupid and we should just stop being silly and leave them alone.. Noone, unless they have/are in the situation give us that much sympathy. everyone else just tells us we're to young for love.. blah blah blah. which is crap.. because we are certainly not too young.. you can never been too young for love really.. to care for someone so much.. to love being with them.. to feel passionate about them.. any age hello?!
anyway.. i think people should give us more sympathy.. because it hurts like hell
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reader, mia1525  +, writes (20 April 2009):
This has been posted before?
I remember reading something exactly the same...
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