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Stuck for First Date Ideas.. help!!

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Question - (12 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

*OP's own title*

Right! I really need your help on this one :/

This boy and me have been talking recently. We've been getting to know each other really well. He doesn't go to the same school as me, but shares the same school bus. He seems really interested most of the time. I've been ill this week so we've been talking over IM + texting. His texts are lovely, he says babe all the time and always say i love you more and stuff. :) Im a truthful person, and the other night we opened up to each other.. I told him that I had been messed around by boys in the past and he reassured me he wasn't like the rest. Its like fate to be honest, the other night at like early morning .. he text me when we BOTH couldn't sleep. He asked me a question, and i admitted i was interested in him, but would want to take things slowly and get to know him a lot more as we've only recently met. And he agreed.

Then yesterday, we were texting all day whilst i was ill and he was at school :) His EX girlfriend who i dont even know, took his phone, which was out order anyway and read all of our texts. She acts like he is still her property and told him he couldnt speak to me... he told me and i was really annoyed. He told me not to worry and had a go at her, telling her to leave us alone. So that was sort of solved.

So then, he asked me what i was doing at the weekend? and i told him i was busy with my family for mothers day and everything. And then i was like.. we should have to do something one of the weekends? and he said. thats what i was thinking :)

So he kept asking me what i would wanna do but i have no ideas? the only idea i had was going to town on the train and we could meet up at the train station and spend the day in town. But he said that his EX would be there?! how annoying is she?!

I want to do something simple + easy, not soppy... something where we could just spend time alone together. But not each others house... too embarrasing for first date! :L

Any ideas?!! help x

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A male reader, yamiallalone Ireland +, writes (13 March 2010):

yeah i agree with kayla, personally i like ice skating because it was my first date, i cant ice skate Lol so my gf was holding my hand the whole time, its romantic when a cute song comes on and a laugh when you fall, plus you can fake a fall and let him catch you ;) good luck :)

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2010):

kayla20 agony aunthow about cinema,bowling,iceskating something like that.id say dont let his ex girlfriend stop you from going where you want to go if you want to go to town then just go its none of her business what her ex gets up to or what you get up to shes not in a relationship with him anymore.if he isnt comfortable with any of that then maybe go for a meal or something

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