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writes:*OP's own title*My ex and I are in frequent communication. We are trying the friend thing although he knows I am very much in love with him. He has very strong feelings for me too but not necessarily romantic love. I don't know.This is my question. He's European and we live in Europe (separately, we met when i moved here). He just told me that he and his best friend are planning a trip to visit my hometown of NYC. (His 3rd time in NY.) We went to NY together and talked about how one day we would live there together when we married.I'm devastated that he would take this trip without me. Isn't there anywhere else in the world they could have gone? I find it totally thoughtless and completely insensitive. It's my home and he's going with someone else (even if his best friend)?? I'm crushed.Am I overreacting?
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reader, Lupus  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 If he wants to go its his choice. Your not together anymore so you shouldnt let this bother you so much. Just dont let it get to you.
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