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Still Depressed Over a Teacher who Left Last Year ... Need Loads of Help and Advice!

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Question - (29 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay..i've already wrote my life...

Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june.

Yeah..i liked to stare at her and look and think about her often. She knows i Like to look at her and i don't know if she likes me or not.

It was till then i heard that she found a new job in a different school...and suddenly i just started to fall apart..it was like i couldn't breathe anymore

So i didn't believe a word about that and pretended that it was some kind of joke..then i heard it again that she was leaving from a different teacher..and i became more and more depressed...

Last day of term till summer came and our assembly always announce the teachers that are leaving in the end of the year...so i watched my teacher saying her final words....and i just feel so depressed that why does this have to happen..????

i havent't seen her since that day....and now it's nearly the end of march and i still think of her everyday..it's like she's a drug..i sometimes want to end it all.....

I just don't know what to do it's like my life is finished...

Her sister a student teacher came to our school...and she soooo reminds me of her...and i'm having a crush on her aswell..and i know she's gonna leave 'cause she's a student teacher who's only here for a wee short while...

Help!!!!! it's really hard to stop thinking about this person and hard to get over...it's like to i'll give anything to see her.. :(

i don't know...

if i'll see her again.. :( i do know what school she moved to for a new job...

WHAT should i do???? pLease i really need help i think i'm gonna kill myself...

Need loads of advice so do send loads of repliess

thanks..

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A female reader, Parental-Advisory United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

Parental-Advisory agony auntokay people just to let you know i'm not gay or bisexual

i am straight and i like boys...

i liked her 'cause she was attractive...lol doesn't make me gay or bisexual get it ?

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A female reader, Tevote Australia +, writes (30 March 2008):

Tevote agony auntPlease just be careful and think out anything that you may attempt to do. I know it's hard to accept the fact that she's gone, you can still have hope that she might come back. If you really want to talk to her that badly why not ask around for her email adress or something? It's worth a shot. BUt if you don't get it then just don't worry, i know it seems so hard to just forget everything. But try, and laugh. Cry for her, it helps really. Don't go over board. I'm sorry this happened to you, it happened to me as well but not the exact position. But the guy I loved left and i have never been able to get in touch with him since, i was sad at first but i swear if you hold on it gets better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Please whatever you do, do not kill yourself!!!! I know your in love with this teacher but you have to get over it !!! I'm sorry this happened to you !!!! IT's said that you liked this person soo much and they just went away . But it's a part of life . you have to move on! this teacher may or may not have felt the same way and even if she did it would have never have worked out . Age diffrence. turning gay . A teach CAN NOT have realtionship with one of her students !!! she wud get fined and jail time and all that horrible stuff. My advice to you is to move on .... find some guys or girls at your school that you like and go from there . If your that depressed and sucicidal you may need prefessional help and don't run away form the help they are there for you . You may want to also tell people that your Bi ..... But that's up to you .I know you miss this teacher but you need to end these feelings....

I hope I helped you in some way .....

feel free to message me at any time . I'm always here to help !!

*~VG~*

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Look.

This crush is now bordering on obsession. And chicks don't like that.

You know full well that you can never, ever be with any of these women. So why even bother giving them any thoughts?

Find a nice girl you can legally date and stick to that until you grow up a little.

Flynn 24

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