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writes:We used to flirt with each other and he used to act like he likes me but then he stopped. And there's this one girl who told him that she had a crush on him and he said that he liked her back. They're not dating or anything.But what pisses me off is he keeps on staring at me. With this blank look on his face or a small smile or a thoughtful expression, like he's thinking of something. I just can't read him.I've tried talking to him but he's avoiding me. He tried approaching me once but he lost his nerve at the last second.Help! What should I do?
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reader, anoms  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 is it possible you miss read his actions a little? maybe he just see's you as a friend and feels your not interested in him either, you may both be confused, i wouldnt complicate the staring issue to much he's probably just thinking about you or being thoughtful as you put it. dont over complicate it and just ask him if he ever got together with this girl you mentioned, and if not then tell him you noticed him staring and your wondering if he likes you etc if you over complacate this your going to end up paranoid and hating eachothers guts lol, just tell him how you feel and nothing bad can come of this i promise you, gudluk.
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 Approach him again in a non-threatening situation--like maybe walking to class or if he is alone at lunch time, and ask him "I noticed you looking at me a lot. It makes me wonder what you're thinking!"
If he's not ready to talk about it, there's not much you can do. But if he doesn't push you away, then I suggest you continue to create opportunities to spend time together. If things go well, you could even invite him for a casual date...like studying at the library together ;)
Good luck!
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