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writes:Im 17 years old. i have a 17 year old boyfriend. when we have sex its good but its only for like 20 minutes.. then when he cums he doesnt want to do it anymore, or let me touch him down there, why is this? and how can i make him last longer? please help.
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reader, xlipgloss06x  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 the average time is like 20 minutes, and when he cums he loses interest in sex and being touched down there. so you should leave him for a minute or two..
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (17 February 2009):
 yeah you shoud listen to all these people...after foreplay and you're fully satisfied it wont even matter long he takes and 20 minutes is along time for a 17 year old (every guy is different)
anyways, after he cums, some guys just arent in the mood anymore for sex, its just nature, and the penis gtes really sinsitive an dhe needs time to recupperate..
thats why he doesnt want you touchung him down there after sex
gudd luck
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reader, anoms +, writes (17 February 2009):
 its possible he's getting tired too quickly, why dont you take the lead and stretch the forplay out a bit longer, if you dont give him access he want be able to get off so soon, if you catch my drift, good luck.
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reader, MaggieMay123 +, writes (17 February 2009):
Oook..Well, start off.. twenty minutes is pretty good for a 17 year old.. Do you have foreplay first.. Tell him what you like.. It is very embarrasing at the start but once he has done it and you give him a good reaction he will want to do this more often.. Ask him to "Tease you first" to drag it out until you reach the point where you cant take it any more.. it will be better for you too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): a few thoughts here - he is young so recovery will be good. learn how to control him - how you move is just as important as he moves....try riding him but stopping when he gets too excited...however as they say practice makes perfect... Hugs Star.x.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (17 February 2009):
 At seventeen, you're lucky he lasts 20 minutes! That's a long time, especially for a young guy.
With most guys, there is a recovery period before they can achieve erection again (or for even being interested). It's just nature's way!
If you want another orgasm, could you try asking him to do you with his hand or mouth? In any case, I wouldn't put pressure on him to perform (have sex more than he wants to). That kind of takes the fun out of sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): every guy has a different stamina. some guys only last a few minutes and others can go for a while. and usually after they come thats it. guys arent like girls where they can orgasm more than once in a short time. give him a little break after he does and then go again
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