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writes: I am a fifteen year old girl and very confused. I have a girlfriend who I feel has been coming on to me. Is she attracted to me? I don't what to do, but we are not talking to each other anymore after a row we had after sobering from a drunken party. She still stares at me when I am not looking. Does this mean she wants to be friends again? Should I? But firstly she can be right bitch sometimes, saying very hurtful stuff when you least expect it. When I confronted her about this she said she does it to make her feeel better. She is soo weird. Sometimes she is her normal self to me then she flirts with me. What is this all about? please answer
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (8 June 2005):
She's toying with you. She gets a kick out of it. When she's happy, she wants to be nice. When she feels down about herself, she bitches at everyone around her to make herself appear and feel better. When she flirts, she is doing it for her ego. Her thinking: I can get any guy to like me, I'm so pretty I can even get girls. Warning...stay away from this type of person. She needs help and I mean professional help. Maybe she's manic depressive or has bi-polar disorder. I know because my sister has acted in this fashion and she was diagnosed as manic depressive. Look it up on the internet if you have questions to understand it more. Part of the problem is she doesn't believe anything is wrong with her but something is wrong with everyone else. I don't know how you'll get the message to her. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2005): I am sort of in the same position with my friend at school, she pretends to come on to me and it's really annoying. This is because I am quite shy and quiet so she thinks she can take advantage of me! And whenever she does a joke I laugh at it and then she sort of puts on a straight face and says what are you laughing at? And then sometimes she's nice. Think about it though, has anything happened to you and her in the past between you both? That's my situation, I told on her about something and if I argue with her then she'll through it back in my face. Sorry I don't know what you can do, just ask her what's wrong.
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