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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How can I be more relaxed and confident when I'm having sex? Sometimes during sex I just feel really stupid with what I'm doing even though I like it and sometimes I feel very unattractive. how can I just "let go"? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): Why don't you try doing something different try dressing up in different sexy outfits try sex games
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reader, :):):) +, writes (25 July 2007):
Well firstly he must be attracted to you to be in bed with you in the first place! But if you feel that way, you could boost your confidence by having your hair done and pamper yourself :)
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reader, daglish  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 It sounds funny that you actually have time to think about such during romp. Gal you know what, i doubt u give sex ur all! The only way you can ever enjoy it is only if u focus on nothing else apart from two things; you and the guy or guys in love-making. Having said that, it should be very clear to you that you are never supposed to think about how you are lookin, sweating, smelling, screaming except how he is getting in and out of you..HOW CAN U ACHIEVE THIS?1) Try as much as possible to have enough foreplay with ur partner so that both of you can attain as much on heat as possible. This makes you so hungry for each others genitals that no other body parts matter more.2) Always try to have sex with the lights on...this with time erases any possible fear of embarassment coz u get used to appreciating each others body no matter what they behold3)Finally always try to remember that during sex man and woman are like animals which need to put off some steam by having a wild time.
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