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writes:I am a wreck.I have been ever since my girlfriend was murdered at University in 2007. We had been together since we were both 15 and had made plans to get married after she had graduated. Obviously, her death was completely unexpected and I cannot help but feel it was by fault. I had an 8 month hiatus of convincing myself she was alive, and when that finished, her death hit me like a freight train. I have had sleepless nights, hallucinations, visions, and nightmares. This all happened two years ago. I would go around and sleep with whoever, wherever, and I got into many fights. My first serious relationship ended in a broken engagement in May and I don't believe I'll ever be able to move on. Please tell me I'm wrong, but also that I'll never forget my childhood sweetheart?
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reader, star2010  +, writes (1 September 2010):
You need closure.........she's your angel now, looking over you
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): So sorry to hear your awful, awful news, I really feel for you.
But, right now, you need to forget about meeting someone else, you need time to grieve and time to heal.
You need counselling, contact your doctors, see if they can put you in touch with someone you can talk to about your emotions, guilt and loss.
Start exercising to release those endorphins.
Time and therapy will help you to deal with your situation.
You'll never forget, but you'll learn how to cope.
She'll always have a special place in your heart, and one day, you'll be content enough to love again, I promise xx
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