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writes:What do you guys think of a 29 year old guy thta lives with his mom and dad, doesn't lift a finger to help his mom around the house who works midnights in a nursing home and is in her 60's, does not work and has not worked in 1.5 years, says he won't bother looking because there are no jobs, flunks out of college, transfers from 1 college to the next because he doesn't pay his tuition, has his mom pay all his bills, thinks that a woman shouldn't expect him to work or do anything productive, is abusive in relationships, stalks the woman when she leaves him?? Just a question, I am describing my ex boyfriend, and he thinks that there is something wrong with me for leaving him.
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reader, lisa21  +, writes (18 October 2007):
maybe there was something wrong with you, you were actually with that sad git lol.
well done for seeing the light, no one should be stuck with a loser like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): Nothing's wrong with you, even if you dumped his ass for some other reason like his excessive bad breath and his unwashed genitals. [shudders]
I think it's good you left that guy. He did things that weren't a part of your principle structure. He tried to put you down regardless whether those reasons were logical or not because he has insecurity issues and low-self esteem.
Flustered? Go out and have a beer or some Tropicana Orange Juice with pulp. That bastard needs no further thought.
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (18 October 2007):
 He is just saying that because you refuse to be the rug that he wants to walk on. He has major issues with responsibility, respect for parents, women and etc. Don't you worry about his pithy comments. He knows what he has said to you is exactly what he is. Keep away from him and let reality smack him upside the head when he wonders what has happened to his life.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (18 October 2007):
 oh my days what a loser. he is obviously a very sad little man and you need to just completely ignore him. hopefully he will get bored and find someone else to stalk! i think the problem is that he doesnt have a life. he doesnt have a job doesnt go to college doesnt actually do anything all day so he just sits around obsessing about you cos he has nothing else to think about.his problem, not yours. good riddance to bad rubbish i say!dont worry about what he's saying about you or your husband. just laugh at him and be happybrookex
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 Nope, there's not a thing wrong with you. He's not normal and he will never find a normal, loving woman to spend his life with because he is indeed, a loser. Stay on your path, and keep avoiding him. Contact the police if he becomes threatening or scares you in any way. Good luck.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (17 October 2007):
 Maybe you want to point out to him that he is the one with the problem and thats why you left him.
Actually forget that you owe him nothing, hopefully you know what you did was right so don't waste anymore time worrying about whats going through his head.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Dear that's also part of the abuse. The abuser thinks you are never going to leave him because you've proven already you can take the abuse. Congratulations on leaving this jerk. I'm sorry for his mom though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): I did leave him. But he is emailing my family & friends & making up lies about my husband, saying he is a crack addict & all this other stuff that is untrue. He is making me sound like a bad person to all these other people, and he was abusive & hit me, but he acts so innocent to others, they don't believe he did it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Oh, you are so smart! Stay away from him. Good luck.
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