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writes:Hi everyone, i'm a nineteen year old guy. i met this girl (17) and we got off very well. we dated called texted facebooked each other frequently for the following weeks. she was really into me and i was into her. however when i asked her to be my girlfriend(over the phone) she said she needed a day or two to think about it. i told her there was no rush. but since after that moment things sort of went awkward between us. she barely texts me, i sort of ended up not texting or calling much after that.i decide to leave her alone to think since she had important exams coming up.my original thought was that maybe the timing of asking was wrong (3 weeks before her big exams)i dont know. anyway i met this other girl. i wasn't looking to meet anyone. i was just going through life feeling a little depressed. but i met this other girl we have talked on facebook and she gave me her number. she is a really interesting and beautiful girl. it so happened about a week after i meet this new girl i meet the first girl downtown. she gave me a hug and asked how i was doing. she planned so we could meet at the park next week. i said ok.now what do i do? what should my approach be. since i met the second girl i have gotten over the first. i started to think to myself that she didn't want to be my girlfriend when i asked her or else she would have given me a direct answer not just ignore it. its not that all of sudden i am not attracted to her anymore, i am attracted to her still. but what should i do? how should my thninking and reasoning be like?please i really need help on this one.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 June 2011):
 It depends who you connect with more..I mean you did tell the first girl she didn't have to rush to give you an answer.
Honestly, I would give this second girl a chance..she didn't blow you off. Let the first girl simmer for a while and if you end up liking the second girl more, she'll get the hint she took too long and move on.
Your choice.
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