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writes:Well I have this question, please help me with it. I met this girl at a party, we had spent a very nice time together as friends, nothing special, but the problem was that she lives in a another country, so we kept in touch by e-mails, sometimes calls, and a lot chatting. So at the beginning I didn't feel no chemistry between us, but after a wile 3-4 months, I feel that I like her very much, we talked every day for 4-5 hours but only on Internet. So I don't know what will I do when I'll see her in real, cause she wants to come to me. I'm just afraid that she will be disappointed of me, cause I'm a bit shy so I express my self very well when I'm writing things then talking in real. So I'm asking always should I tell her my feelings on internet or wait till she comes to me?Thank you for you answer and help
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reader, doom +, writes (7 September 2007):
doom is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your advice:)
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 I'm fairly shy in person, but I can be as outgoing as possible online, so i can kind of relate to you there... And I would say you should DEFINITELY wait for her to come to you.Man just think, if shes coming from another country to visit you, I don't think she's going to be shocked to find out you like her, she'd just rather hear it in person,atleast thats my opinion.
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reader, bday121  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Hmmm if this girl is coming to visit you, and enjoys talking to you so much, I think it's safe to say that she's interested in you, too.
I think, maybe, you should wait until you see her. If you can gather up the courage, it would be much more romantic to tell her your feelings in person. And who knows, maybe she'll confess her feelings for you first!
If you absolutely know you'll be too shy in person, then just go ahead and confess on the internet. If this girl really has feeling for you she'll be thrilled to hear that you reciprocate, no matter what the communication medium is.
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