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30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why do I feel this way? is this normal?:(? My ex boyfriend broke up with me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore.He ripped my heart out. I've never been hurt. I loved him so much. Thought I've finally found the one.He wants us to be friends and says I have a split personality and he can't love me again. Is been over 6months and he's still emailing me and texting me.I feel so numb and empty. I've forgotten him..I feel nothing for him now.. But am still so numb and empty, I don't feel anything at all.. Not interested in relationships or guys anymore.Will I ever feel like th old me again? I feel like somethings wrong with me.. Is this normal?Thanks..x
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (20 January 2012):
Sounds like he is the one who has a split personality, ripping your heart out and then saying he wants to be friends.
You know, he should respect your space. If he dumped you, he should have the decency to let you move on.
You will not be able to reclaim yourself as long as you are in touch with him. He is insulting you by saying you have a split personality and he is still owning your time yet denying you love.
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reader, Aunty Anne +, writes (20 January 2012):
dont worry that you arnt interested in guys at the moment.its normal...you have been hurt.first thing to do is stop him texting and emailing you...what for? so he has a little control over you? to relieve his guilt?. he needs to move on and appreciate that he hurt you so bad and cant expect you to be in touch with him or a friend,its his loss.glad you feel nothing for him now,thats good but you need to stop worrying about how you feel about dating...its normal at the moment. enjoy life, every day. stop thinking you have to be constantly in a relationship. you have done so well to get over this. be yourself, concentrate on yourself. you wont want a relationship at the moment cos you dont want to be hurt again.get your own life back, what you're going through now is normal....in time you will feel different but look after yourself.good luck
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