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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. I love him very much.I have been nagging at him lately and its only because of the way I'm treated.he seems to spend a lot of time latey with his best friend and I have been feeling beyond neglected. I have tried telling him and he doesn't listen to me. Well recently while at one of his family events I found out he was going to the beach with his best friend and female cousin who seems to like to party hard. It hurt because everyone else knew and I was the only one who didn't and I asked him when he was going to tell me and he said this week. I was so hurt because I've been wanting to go to the beach and he was taking his best friend over me and I thought I was a little more important than that. Well I waited until everyone left had him walk me to the car and asked when he planned on telling me and basically he was going to tell me right before he left and I asked why I wasn't invited and he said I need to get away from you. I was really upset and we went in the house and he said a lot of hurtful things and he told me nothings wrong I just need time away that's all. I haven't heard from him in 2 days my heart aches and I'm not sure what to do. I love him but he can't keep walking all over me and wanting me only when its good enough for him. He isn't affectionate in any way I have to think twice about touching him. What does time away mean based on all that and the fact he is ignoring me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thank god I wised up! I realized I don't deserve it and I'm still young. After these responses and after support from a lot of people I kicked him to the curb and it feels good! It hurts because I have been with him for too long. I feel like a weight has been lifted off me.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Sounds like he's keeping you hanging on. Let him have his time away. He is not treating you right. The beach is a big enough place there was room for you on it. There's no excuse why you couldnt have gone. Maybe he has the hots for the mates cousin. Two days away is a long time with no message for you, that's not a good sign. What do you see in him if there's no affection, you'd get more love from a puppy. This doesnt sound like a match made in heaven. Get out while you can and enjoy your life with someone who makes you feel like a goddess. Hope this helps.
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reader, Liza999  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Sweetheart its time to toughen up! I can sense the desperation coming right off the page. It sounds to me like you are aware of being a bit naggy and probably because he is pushing you away so as hard as it will be for you don't contact him anymore. You need to show him what you will and wont put up with. If he cannot respect you or want to be with you then you will find someone that does!!!Don't waste another second worrying about this fool, his loss!
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