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writes: Dear Cupid,I'm 18 years old and I got married a year ago to a man who's 26. I was so in love with him and I know he was too. Later in our relationship I started arguing a lot for no good reason. Some stuff happend between me and him and we decided to live apart fo 1 month. He left for Mexico without letting me know. I haven't talked to him in a month and my sister in law tells me that if I really love him, to go to Mexico and start a new life. I want to do it but I'm so confused. What if he's not happy to see me?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (13 June 2005):
 I think before deciding to go over to Mexico you need to talk to him first. It sounds as though he as already walked out you! It wouldnt be fair to trapse all the way over there when he left like that, he probably thought it would be best all round so that he didnt have to face you. It was probably the easy way out for him. Contact him and see what he says, its not fair that he should leave you in limbo, you need to find out if he still wants to be with you, before you decide to chuck it all in and head over there. If you cant get hold of him, that i would think thats becuase he doesnt want you to... until you get a chance to speak with him, i wouldnt budge an inch as this could make things worse for you. He may have had enough space now and maybe hes ready to come home, but you will need to speak tohim first to found out whats going on, be strong dont let him treat you like this, its not fair he should upsticks and leave you on your own like that. Dont go after him until you know where you stand, of you could regret it.
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (12 June 2005):
 I think you should get over there fast. Mexico is full of gorgeous Spanish girls that men cant resist. You sound like a lovely girl, why wouldnt he be happy to see you? Get over there have a long good chat, and make up for the time you havent spent with each other!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2005): The age gap might be a slight problem. But him leaving for Mexico without telling you makes it seem he wants some 'alone time'. Leave him be, don't follow him. Talk about it calmly if he phones or when -if- he comes home to you. DO NOT BEG HIM TO COME BACK TO YOU.
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