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writes: Hey Aunts, i need help, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 19 months and lately i just feel so let down by him, and i dunno if it's because i'm on my period because it does happen sometimes. but i feel like i don't love him anymore, and it's just time for us to spilt! but i dunno, i'm not quite sure of it yet! i'm so confused, i think his picked up on it or he feels the samebecause his been acting strange =( i dunno what to do, obviously i still care about him because i am upset that his acting strange. do you think in a relationship you should just wait until your sick and tired of them and you're sure that breaking up is better for you and you won't regret it, or leave because his upset you?hrmm..please reply! xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): You'll know when it's time... it's like knowing you're hungry - you can't explain it to anyone else or ask if you're hungry -- you just know it deep inside.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Or you could try to change it. Maybe you just need to plan different activities with each other, or take up a new hobby or sport together. You can't bail out on every relationship just because it hits a dead zone. Step back and look at the big picture and assess how you feel about this guy when your aren't on your period. Does he make you happy most of the time? Does he meet your needs (affectionate, sexually, being kind to you)etc...? If so, you're probably just in a slump. Lots of realtionships go through this. On the other hand, if he's falling short in alot of the areas you feel are important in this relationship, it might be time to move on. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 I notice your confusion about this. I think you should wait until you are SURE you no longer want the relationship. This is different from waiting to be "sick and tired" of it. Apparently you think that your bad feelings about the relationship will only get worse, not better.
You should sit one day and take your time to think things through, very carefully.
I'm sure your boyfriend has picked on how you feel. You owe it to him, and to yourself, to end the relationship gracefully, or to make it blossom.
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