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writes:I really like the girl I'm with right now, but she says she wants to make mates. But I like her more than a mate, I can't stop texting or can't stop thinking of her. I really like her and she thinks good of me she does like me, but how can I tell her that i want her more than a mate? Sometimes I'm affraid to text her or email her on msn. What do I do? I really do like her a lot, but afraid of losing her. Please, please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe does want to go out with me we have made arrangements to meet up for a whole weekend together. she is always happy to hear from me and she always replies tome via txt and msn but i get the urge of pouring my heart out to her but at the same time of doing this i feel i will loose her. and i dont want this please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): hey, im 16 and i have a friend like you. he likes me, but i dont like him that way back. alot of people force me into going out with him. but i really dont want to, hes a good friend. i think that if you think that she likes you, let her know you like her more, maybe you will be surprised-she might just be thinking about you the same. but if she says that she only wants to be friends, let that be. give her her space. the last thing she needs is all her friends talking about her going out with someone which shes not ready for.
good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): Assuming she's the same age as you, the best way to lose her is to suggest that you want to be more than mates if she's not of the same mind.
It's a good idea to keep the friendship as it is for the time being, then in a year or so you might move on to other things if you're still mates. By all means tell her you fancy her and then if she feels the same way she'll let you know - probably - unless she's a bit shy.
Don't keep pestering her - unless she's constantly waiting to hear from you - as that can be a bit of a turn-off. Take things one day at a time.
best of luck Mate!
Phil
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