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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend went on holiday to cuba... we split up just before he went and i said to him that promise me you wont fall in love with anyone else and please dont do anything like sex, so he promised then i found out he had sex on the beach with this other girl. i was really shocked. he said to me that he was drunk and it didn't meen anything he also said that he loves me and im the only one for him, what do i do about this?please help me =[
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah he was my ex but we was plannin on goin out with each other anyway and because im goin out with him now.. he asked me back out couple of days after he did it with her. anyway he still promised me he wouldnt do anything with anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): because i love him and we was goin to get back 2ge4 as soon as he came back
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): Do you honestly see a future with someone who won't keep their promises to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): The word EX is whats important in this question. Thats what he was. You gave up your rights to be faithful to each other when you split.
To be honest I think it was kind of him to spare your feelings and say he wouldnt because I know what I would have said.
For what reason should he not have slept with someone else? Were you on terms that you would get back together on his return?
Theres nothing you can do about it now only decide whether you want to be his one and only.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I'm not sure what kind of help you need.
You'd split up BEFORE he went off to Cuba, so you had no claim to him after that and whatever he did there was of no concern to you!
Why would you want someone you'd just split up with to still take your feelings into account?
Phil
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