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writes:my husband had been trying to get me to have a 3 some for some time. long story short... i said i would try but only if it was with a certain guy...my husband started e-mailing me as if he were said guy...he even went to the library to e-mail me when he was "at work"...well he got his way. we did. it wasn't all that for me and after a year of playing and my husband getting very hard to deal with, i said no more. it's been about 2 years since then with the exception of my husbands birthday's. there is one guy that my husband really enjoys me being with so he has been it. i have said that i don't want to do it ever again...that i get nothing out of it...i tell him that i'm sick of being F-----. well today the guy would like to come and cellabrate his birthday. i said no thanks and all day today we've spoken all of 10 words to eachother. my husband is pouting hoping to get his way and i'm upset and my feelings are very hurt that he just keeps pushing and pushing without any regard for me. i guess my ? is this...does not playing, because my husband wants to, make me a bad wife? thanks for you insight,isthere
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): no it does not make you a bad wife at all.you and you alone are entitled to make decisions about what you do or dont want to do sexually,and your husband shouldnt keep pestering you about it x
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reader, isthere +, writes (18 July 2009):
isthere is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you guys...your imput was very helpful...i am sticking to my guns...mr. pout man can pout and pout...if he's not careful i'l be out out. thanks again.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 You're very disturbed over this thing. That settles the matter. If you don't want to be in bed with another man, that's it. The difficult part is holding yourself up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): That definitely does not make you a bad wife. Your husband should respect what you have to say and not push you into doing anything. So if you don't want to, you certainly don't have to.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (18 July 2009):
 You dont have a to do anything you dont want to do.your husband should respect your wishes and should persist on you joining in a 3some no further.he should be happy enough you've tried it before for him. and as you said it, you didnt like it very much.so theres no reason to keep doing something you dont enjoy.your husband should be more considerate to your feelings and it doesnt make you a bad wife at all.
but i still dont get why your husband would want another guy in the room sharing your love making.just tell him you dont wanna do it, end of discusiion. good luck
-ardy
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): Don't do it, that would be a disaster.
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