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writes:I still love my ex and she loves me too. what should I do should I give it one more shot or should I leave it alone? We've broken up twice already and I'm afraid that if we give it one more try I will end up heartbroken again but I want to try again because I love her with all my heart.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (14 August 2007):
You are both young and might think you are in love, but probably aren't. You could either address whatever issues caused you to break up previously and re-enter a relationship together WITH CAUTION. Or you could try to see other people and if those relationships end, you will probably not feel the same way about each other, but then again, you might.
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reader, Memorial_Address  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 I'm sorry but I think you two don't actually "click". as you said, you've broken up already twice, happytochat is right, I think there's a problem with your relationship... As they said, once is enough, twice is too much and three is dangerous... Good luck!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (14 August 2007):
I would say giving it another go would just be leaving you both to suffer heartbreak again. Something is obviously not right between the two of you if you have broken up twice already. Why did you break up? Unless you have addressed these issues of what caused the two break ups in the first place, then giving it another go will do nothing, because those issues will just come up again. So if you think you can work through the reasons why you guys broke up then maybe giving ti anothr go woudlnt be a bad idea. However, generaly I would assume it wouldnt wokr.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): gosh...I do understand what you are going through!!! It is hard emotionally and you are probably so confused! From my exsperience...my ex boyfriend and I dated for 4 years and we had a couple of times where we were over..and we just went through out most serious break up and I was pretty sure we would never even talk to each other again...we ended up talking and then realizing how much we love each other!! We spent the entire day loving each other and it was just like "this is life." So my advice is...dont give up on each other 2 soon. BUT think about taking a long break and then talking to each other...i think your heart or your stomach will let you know what you should do. If you have strong feelings for her...you will know for sure after not talking for a month.
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