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reader, Repeatedsmiler  +, writes (18 August 2007):
Wake up girl A 33 yr old is taking out girls who are 13 -15 and they are not relatives? This sounds like a case of grooming to me with girls who are insecure and niave. He is using his age and money to impress girls of this age and you are alright with this? This should be investigated if I were you. Are you happy to continue a relationship with someone who does this and has young girls sitting on his crotch and you know about it. Wake up warning bells this sounds dodgy dodgy dodgy Would you be happy if you had a daughter or a friends daughter was doing this with a 33 year old man
I would pass this information on to the authorities and save messing up some young vunerable girls heads in the future
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reader, madmaxx  +, writes (16 August 2007):
This is very strange, not what a grown man should be acting like.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (16 August 2007):
 That is weird. They sit on his lap? Hes a grown man, these arent even adults! They are still classed as children. He could get in trouble with the law for this.Take care xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): Heya its not that wierd im 13 and going out with a 29 year old we r hauing sex 2 3 times day. and hes got a 2 year old son who call me mummy there is nout to worry about?cheri~lou
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): Hunny,
Yes very weird for want of a better word, I wouldnt be anywere near this person love my advise is to get away from this man, And if I were you Id let the police know girls of this age can be very vunerable, But he knows what he is doing belive me... TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, deja3575  +, writes (14 August 2007):
Yes, I agree this is not normal and highly inappropriate. 33 year old men should not have common interests with children. I assure you if the local police got wind of his actions they would certainly want to at least investigate.
These girls are naive and he is taking advantage of their youth. A percentage of girls in this age group are definitely sexually active. I would be very concerned. Your fiance needs help, and these girls need to be protected. I would definitely contact their parents.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): That's gross. He let's little girls sit on his lap. Why would he even want to hang out with kids? He's old enough to be their dad. I think he's a child molester. Look into it, see if he has any of the signs.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (14 August 2007):
 I think this sounds very strange and why would he have common interests with children? You have every right to be concerned but you should also offer to go out with them as a group as his reaction maybe telling...I wonder if their parents know about this adult friendship because if they were my girls then I would be very concerned.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (14 August 2007):
Sorry, but that IS weird and inappropriate. I mean, he doesn't let other females your age or his age sit on his lap does he? If he's not a store Santa, you better have a long talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): yes that's a bit awkward that he lets his younger friends sit on your fiances lap!? to tell you, it's shocking and a bit disgusting. he has to understand that they are very young, it's okay to be friends with them, but he should not over do it like that.......it might become serious in the future. you should talk to him about it and express your feelings towards him regarding your concern.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): I think there are good probabilities your guy is a pedophile because those are the men that like to be around kids. Read more about pedophilia and check for yourself if your guy has the red flags.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Yes, very weird. Run away!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): this is more than weird,from what your saying i truly believe there is a sexual motive,also these girls are underage,have a word with your partner an let him know how much you disapprove an he could get himself in trouble with the law
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