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writes:Ok... Im twelve... my friend's brother... is 14. Me and him have actually liked each other for years but just recently our secrets came out accidently in a seven minutes in heaven game. And now that we both know we want to take it farther. Ive asked my friend about it and she said it was "okay as long as we stay friends" but i dont know... what might happen with me and him? idk if i should listen to her and my heart or play the cautious road.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (15 April 2007):
 i think she just doesnt want you getting in over youre head with this guy she wants you to take it easy and slow, since youre 12yrs and things shouldnt get heavy at that age at all. so why not spend sometime getting to know him, maybe take walks out, go to cinema do fun things..youre very young so spend youre time enjoying it doing fun activities with youre friend and include youre other friend from time to time let her get to know him too..if youre worried about letting him in just try and keep the heart in the box letting it out for fresh air from time to time .. hope this helps A xx
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reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (15 April 2007):
Ok, you are friends...messing about pursuing something sexual usually ends up in a let down, embarrassment and not speaking...PLEASE don't go all the way. I did and I am now 33 and I regret it because when I look back I thought the guy I did it with was great and it makes you feel different, grown up...I just remember feeling embarrassed and sore. You won't ever be a girl again if you do. Remember you will spend most of your life being a woman and it isn't all that great sometimes, you'll be just a woman like all the woman you see walking around. Stay mates. I had a great friend at 13 and I never did it with him, although I was close several times, but now I look back I am SO pleased I didn't. Please wait. I ended up with cervical problems from messing about with boys too young...I was told that when I had my first child, it was embarrassing to be told I had a problem. If he likes you he will like just being with you, holding you and respect why you can't or won't. Seriously don't do what I did, mess about thinking that he would like me more if I went all the way, it always ended uncomfortable and a bit of an embarrassment and your friendship is never the same, never intact.
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