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Should I worry about my boyfriend?

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Question - (17 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *attie90 writes:

hi all my boyfriend is leaving today and i wont be able to see him he'll be gone until sunday and even then i cant see him not until monday. he just informed me today that hes going up north with one of his guy friends and his dad to go hunting and im a little worried that his ego is going to get to him while hes there and i dont want to have to worry about him. he told me that i have nothing to worry about that he'll be 20 miles away from any other civilization except for who he'll be with i just want some reassurance that he wont do anything.

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A male reader, john101 United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

john101 agony aunti think you are very insucure. he is going away with men what do you think hes going to do have sex with his mates dad. you shouldnt worry about any thing

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A female reader, Country Woman United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

Country Woman agony auntSweetheart this comes down to trust and if you have doubt why is that?

Have you had reason to doubt his word previously or not?

If the answer to that is no then why are you worried now?

How long have you been with your boyfriend? What makes you think you should doubt him now?

If your truly suspicious of what he is saying to you then it either has something to do with your past or his past or perhaps who is going with?

You cannot change what will be and worrying yourself sick about it is not going to help you. Tell him that you hope that he is telling you the truth as you don't want to be someone sitting at home and being made a fool of as that is just a relationship that is based on lies. If his reaction is full reassurance then you know you are worrying about nothing.

On the other hand if he looks sheepish or won't tell you everything then your gut instincts could mean that he is trying to hide something from you.

There is some reason why you are getting yourself in such a state about this so question this first OK.

Here anytime so never be afraid to talk to any of us OK.

BFN

Country Woman

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

Well nothing is ever certain however if he is 20 miles from anyone else i doubt he is going to do anything. Ask yourself is he trust worthy if he is stop worrying if not then have a good chat with him about how u feel dont b controlin tho like lotsa calls

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