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writes: do you think im just been paranoid or could there be something going on. :S basicly ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, im 16 and hes 18 we got together on the 22-05-2006 and i adore him, i love him with all my heart, but recently i think hes getting a bit close to my best friend, we've been best friends for 13 years and we are so close its untrue, but her brother is my boyfriends mate. he has recently started stoppin at their house, ive noticed when we go out if shes with us she's realy flirty with him and he told me a few months ago that she tried to kiss him but he pulled away and nothings happened since but i dont like the idea of him stoppin at her brothers cause she is a very flirty person and i know she will do anything to get her hands on any lad she sees. he spends a lot of time with her brother and most of the time shes with me so its okay but its when he stays over at her house :S its really staring to get to me, like i cant sleep if i know hes at their house, i always want to ring him to see what theyre doing, ive stopped spending as much time with her and hin together because i kinda get jealous when shes chasing him and stuff, she screams n stuff, fighting with him, winding him up. should this be getting to me? i dont want them sleeping in the same house :S dont get me wrong he does stay at mine most weekends and i spend aot of time with him so i dont think theres anything going on and i know she annoys him (his words where) 'got she gets up my tree' i dont think he likes her, and he says he loves me and wouldnt touch another girl. should i be worrying about this?
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 i would talk to her more about it since you are best friends as any best friend should be would be understanding
maybe she is jelouse because you have a boyfriend and she doesn't?
you can't pry him away from his friends just because he is best friends with your best friend
you need to work this out with her
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): I can understand why you are jealous...
Its really awkward being friends with someone as flirtacious as her...
Fortunatley I've never had that!
I think you should talk to her about it. Your boyfriend sounds like hes being really honest, but the flip side is that hes seriously messing with you.
Talking to her about it amicably at first might solve it, but you seriously need to make a firm point about it. I wouldn't do anything rash, because she'll take it out with revenge.
I hate it when people are trapped in a box about things!!- talk to her and if nothing gets anywhere, talk to your boyfriend and say your just worried about it blah blah blah
Don't go on about it. He'll get very annoyed.
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