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Was he really interested or was he just being friendly?

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Question - (9 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2008)
A female Australia age 36-40, *hy_juli writes:

Hi! Help me please. I don't know what to think...

I have a boyfriend that i love.

Almost a year ago, i met a sweet guy, in a peculiar situation. After 10m he asked me if i'd like to have coffee some day(we have some things in common).We Went for coffee and for a walk, talked for 2,5 hours.

I was attracted to him immediately, couldn't stop looking at his eyes, and he never turned away.

When we were saying bye he told me he was going to be in a play in 1 mth, if i wanted 2 go to let him know. I never said anything!

At the end of the year i texted him 2 wish happy new year, replied saying that we should met for coffee or a drink. I decided to reply to set the day almost 2 wks after, but then he was going on holidays. 30 days later i moved to another city.

A mth after he told me by email that in 2 mths he was going to be on another play in my new city. On the day he texted me. I said i was busy @ work. 2h before the play he texted me to say in case i changed my mind my name was @ the door.I have a bfd, I don´t want to mess things up. I'm afraid to meet this guy because i feel attracted to him. But this is on my mind!

Do you think he had some kind of interest or was just being friendly? Thank you =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

I think he was interested but I think because you decided to leave things sandwiched between time things would've been going through this head and probably doesn't think your interested.

Particularly the 2 week gap between replying to a text!

And I also think you need to let him know. One before he finds someone else, two in case you don't get the same chance, three to set things straight.

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