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writes:hey! im just curious? theres this very hot guy who tells me he likes me. He's taking it really slow and i like that but theres a bit of a downer..he has an 8 month relationship! we all know he doesnt love her anymore. He's tried to break up with her but she always ends up crying back to him. I'm falling for him and he likes to party and drink .. i dont mind much but i come from a churchgoing family, do you think he can change? and should i go for it? something tells me i should but what if i waste my time? please tell me what i should do! thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you soo much! I love the advice because I;ve been getting alot of negative advice and it really helped to hear you and also mention God! Thanks again.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (21 February 2007):
 I think that you should pray about it. The Lord will answer your prayers concerning you and the boy that has your heart. Most guys like to party and drink. Just be careful not to get into a car that he is driving under the influence!! That is sooooo dangerous!
The problem about the other girl is another story. I think that you should procede with caution, and don't get your heart broken! It sounds like to me that he is STILL in the relationship with her. Because she keeps crying back to him and he is still with her. If he don't want her back and don't love her....he wouldn't have her back regardless of the tears!!
Just go with caution, and see what happens, and see if your prays get answered....they will!
Love and Prayers!!
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reader, Sadi +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Hi cunfused... Personally, You said that he is already in a relationship... Put yourself in his girlfriends shoes... if you two started dating.. and some other girl tris to convince him to break up with you, and he did, You would be heart broken...You also say that You come from a christian family.. Do you think what you're doing right now is very christian? And he is a partier... You're not.. I think you should find someone that shares the same interest. Nothing good comes out of a party.. And you're better then that... And one last thing... Ever herd of carma? ... So, again.. leave him and find someone out there with interest the same as yours... It may not be what you wanna hear.. but, it will help you in the long run..Good Luck
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