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writes: People in the story :Me (year 9)His ex-gf (year 11) And my boyfriend (year 10)The other girl in this story dated my boyfriend a little while ago. He dumped her because he really didnt like her anymore and then he asked me out a few of weeks later.I said yes to him because i had been told this girl had moved on and wouldn't mind me dating him. I really like him and he likes me and we get on very well together.When she found this out she had a go at me and im not good at people putting me in the spot, im not tough or bitchy.. im just normal. Then all her horrible friends got involved and are being horrid to me too.. my own friends are joining in with them because they are cowards and im dreading going back to school. Im getting public abuse aswell when things are posted on my facebook wall such as 'Someone can't stand up for themselves...' and then the others like it and/or join in.I never, ever intended to hurt her... The last thing i wanted was to upset or hurt anyone because im not like that. I just want everyone to get along together.He's trying his best to stand up for me but in reality it's us two against all the others, i wont have anyone there for me when we break up (which i hope wont be for a long time).The other thing is she's a year older than him in the first place which strikes me as something quite odd but there you go..Please help me, i dont want to break up with him because he's so lovely and perfect for me,Many thanksxoxo
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 If you are getting bully than you need to tell an adult about this. If you let them get away with the bullying than your going to let them know that they can get away with messing with you and the bullying will never stop. Take a stand for yourself not necessarily for this guy but for you, for your future. If you stop the bullying now by not giving in and taking a stand the odds of them picking on you will diminish. If you let them get away with what they want than they will see you as an easy target and will continue to pick on you and bully you in a daily bases. I would talk to your parents and school counselor.
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reader, feelslikeimdivorcedalready  +, writes (20 December 2010):
I believe that if ypur relationship is strong you will remain together and others who are chimming in with these girls will see how nice and kind of a person you really are and try being your friend instead of the other girl. I do believe in that because people do grow and change. A real "bad girl" would stand up for whats right and not follow along with the crowd.
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 My advice: Don't worry about what everyone else thinks and get on with enjoying your relationship with your Boyfriend. She is just jealous that you and this guy have something and she doesn't. Ignore all these people - things like this will blow over and before you know it there will be someone else being talked about. Concentrate on your current relationship.
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