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writes: I told this guy at work that I really liked him and he said that he liked me as well and even tho he is technically single he is seeing someone. We have been out a few times and get on really well and the one night he even kissed me but then apologised becuase he said it was a mistake. He just wants to be friends but I want to be more and I've told him this. Do I just go with the flow and be friends with him or do I try and win him over????
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): I think that if someone is in a relationship they should be left alone with that person. You might tell yourself he's not happy in his current situation but believe me it could be that situation where they have their actual g/f as a safety net, almost a security thing and see other women as a bit on the side. If he cheats on her, he'll probably cheat on you. It's too complicated so why not just leave it. If he likes you then he will dump his g/f himself - just don't push him. Hope this helped xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): I think that the time when you could have won him over has passed. You have already told him that you like him theres not really a lot else you can do it seems he may be into this other girl.
The only thing you could do is be his friend sometimes when there is no pressure for anything to happen people get to see the real you a more relaxed you and he may even begin to like things about you that he had never noticed before.
Don't hang around waiting for something to happen with him though date other men as the old saying goes you always want what you cannot have! Make yourself unnatainable you never know!! Good luck
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reader, StarNews +, writes (30 December 2005):
 He said it was a mistake and it sounds like he is a bit confused, and he is into someone else. He might be tempted by you, but trying to resist because he wants to do the right thing. I dont think there is anything you can do to win him, it seems someone else already has his heart. You are seeing what you want to see by saying you want more, when he told you he just wants to be friends. I would suggest going with the flow and just be friends with him, this guy sounds taken.
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