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writes:His jealousy makes him angry and he gets himself very upset. He is not one to handle any type of emotional strife of any sort. But instead of talking about things and working through it he would rather walk away. He says he cant have any roller coaster rides. He can not handle any type of negativity or even admit when he is wrong. He absolutely loves me and I love him. I will see him in a few hours prob for the last time. It is going to be very hard. Should I try and talk to him or just let him go? I wish I did not love him but there is so much good about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): i think you are trying to tell us what happened - but all you have given us is the last but one chapter. tell us why he walked out... and why see him for the last time -very hard to write advice with only a little bit of the story.
anyway, you could ask what is done that makes him jealous and if i love him i will stop? Talk to him if you want him is the best advice?
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reader, scleo +, writes (27 February 2009):
Hey i hear you.But i think u should try to talk to him first because u cant just let it go like that.U guys love each other,and care about each other so there is more to that.I personally think u should try to talk about it first and see how it goes if he doesn't change then maybe u should let it go but right now give him a second chance.Lemme know how it goes.
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reader, ISOHaven +, writes (27 February 2009):
Well, if the good outweighs the bad then maybe you should talk to him. If you can chisel some of the bad out then their would be even more good to look at.What is making him jealous? Is there anything you are doing that enables him to be insecure?All in all, it seems he needs to learn how to handle his emotions in a more responsible manor. Some people have a hard time doing this simply because they never learned how to deal with emotions.Talk to him about couples counseling and see if it's something he's willing to try. In the end, if he's not willing to make the relationship work then I'm afraid you are at a dead end.
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