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writes:My husband has been having an affair for 9 months. Twice he said he would never see her again. The third time I kick him out. He has been living with her the last 2 months, lying and deceiving me. He was calling a dating service 13 years ago for 3 years. When I found out he blame me because he was lonely and that he never dated any women and was only interested in me. I blame myself because I was very distrustful and jealous. He is a real nice guy, patience, kind never said a mean word to me in all our 27 years. Which makes it hard for me not to take him back. He has destroyed my trust in him and now says he feels very bad, he's sorry and feels very guilty for what he has done, and wants to come back, he is still with her. I don't think I can handle the pain in taking him back. How do I know if he will do it again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Let him go. He obviously has feelings for this other woman. You can do better than him.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 He does not sound willing to change his ways and own up to what he is truly responsible for.
Trust is probably one of the most important aspects of a working relationship. If you can't trust him (and he has given you no reason to), then I think it is time to end this relationship.
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