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writes: My b/f and i were at his apartment last night. We were in his bedroom and his phone rang indicating a text message. It was almost 2 am. He goes to the other room to get his phone and said it was his sister. He stays there for a minute or two and i guess he called her. He comes to the bedroom by the window to get better reception to speak. His apartment does not give good reception. The girl is talking about a guy and then he said " Did you tell your mom?" If it was his sister, why would he refer to their mom as her mom. I said that to him when he was done talking. He said his sis was having a guy a problem(she is older than him--i think 35 or something)Then he said:LOOK--the text is from her and who he spoke to was her. He probably knew what i was thinking--if a person is sneaky enough, they can easily just change the name to someone else. He said call the number then. I didn't call. Does it sound weird that he said your mom when it is his mom as well or am i being too suspicious. Was he just hoping i didn't call or should i trust it was his sister. I am tempted to copy down the number and see if it is her. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): This is the one who posted the question.
Any further advice or input?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2006): That is a huge risk he took--call the number but he probably figured i wouldnt do it.
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (9 June 2006):
 How long have you been with your boyfriend?
Yes it does sound a little suspicious as why would he say your mom rather than did you talk to mum so I would be wondering as well if it was me.
Just get his sister's number somehow without him knowing and check the number on his phone. Well that is if he hasn't deleted it already after your questions.
Unfortunately there is never guarantees in life and this episode has raised those fears for you which could be unfounded but at the same time there is a possibility of something amiss.
Don't take everything as gospel right now and just be cautious that's all.
If he is honest then he will be open and upfront with you. If you start to feel things are not right or he is not being honest then that is the time to doubt him.
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Country Woman
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