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writes: well, i know this may sound really silly but 2months ago my bf lost a very close relative, he said to me he wants his space from me i haven't spoke 2 him for 3 weeks, his mum and dad have kicked him out his house cause of his lies, i guess he has moved back in with his ex because she lost the same relative too. i speak 2 his brother nearly every day, but he hasn't contacted me, i still have flash backs of how we were together so happy never argued ( 8weeks)we always laughed, then he has jus gone!! i carnt stop hurting so much!! help??
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
 dear reader with a lose of a relative people react in so many different ways and taken that you have only been together for a short time you don't really know eachother enough for him to fall back on you it sounds like his going through the mill a little bit so i think i might agree with him he does need his speace to figure this mess out as for moving back with his ex you have every right to feel bad about this but be carefull not to get obsessed about it they wre together once and as you say they have lost the same person they will need to greive toghter to some degree just try and give him a little more time when you speak to his bother just pass on a messege that you thinking of him and are there if he needs to talk but try not to be pushy or you might drive him away.
i hope things work out ok for you if you need to talk to anyone or just want a chat feell free to e-mail direct and i'll get back to you
all the best xxx
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reader, shania  +, writes (9 June 2006):
 It sounds like he has moved on,i wouldn't try to contact him,just let him get on with it.I know he lost a relative but he still should of treated you with a bit more respect plus he has moved in with his ex...sounds all very cosy.Heartache hurts like hell....you cannot imagine anyone that could measure up to him, but you will....Out there ,theres a guy who will sweep you off your feet and your ex will be a distant memory...trust me...everyone has been there.Keep yourself busy...go out with your friends...dont sit on your own too long...otherwise you will have too much time,thinking about him all the time,and believe me...you will heal. Good luck.
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