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writes:Hey. Me and my girlfreind are very close, I love her very much and would never want to hurt her, I really just want to take care of her and I really, really dont want to lose her however I have done somthing which I feel guilty about. She told me she was sexually abused in the past by her father, we went through a difficult patch and broke up and I was very upset and down, to eb honest with you I was heartbroken and I spoke to my mum about it and told her about the relationship and the fact that my girlfreind had been sexually abused, not in a malicous way, I just needed somone to talk to. Anyway me and my girlfreind got back together. Me and my girlfreind live far away from my mum and they have never met(yet) howver I still feel guilty for what I have done, do you think it will be ok not to tell my girlfreind this? obviously my mum will not tell anyone she knows how bad I feel about telling her and wants me to be happy, I just wish I hadnt said anything now, I dont like keeping things from my girlfreind
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): nothing will happen if you tell the whole world, like my mother was sexaul "abused" by her step-brother at a young age, if they do not tell the police within 7 years nothing will happening, dumb law but one all the same
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2010):
No, don't tell her. You needed advice from someone, so you told your mother. She will keep it a secret. Don't say anything.
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