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writes:I'm a student and I've had a semi-relationship of about 9 months with a friend who I've known for almost 2 years. We were never actually official or even 'seeing' each other but we always went out got drunk and kissed and had sex a couple of times. He told my friends a few times he liked me etc. I've had a few flings with some other guys and rumour has it he was really annoyed. It's the end of the academic year and we're all going home. He lives about 5 hours away but He's going to work in another city next year so I'll only see him once a month or something- as opposed to everyday that I do now. We've had quite a wild last week and one of my friends from home came to visit. They ended up spending the whole first night together, kissing etc! That night I slept with another guy. My friend from home took him back to my house and they did 'stuff'.I don't know whether this is because they like each other, to make me jealous / to get back at me but They are still texting now :(! I stupidly told my friend that it was fine for her to go for him (because im really bad at admitting how i feel!) but now i REALLY regret it. What should I do?Should I tell her that its really annoying me? ..even though i have no idea if he likes me anymore and we won't really see each other next year. I'm so upset about it :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012): You should have told her the truth! you need to try and pluck up the courage to speak to him at least and if he tells you he has feelings for her you should probably leave them alone, its the classic, if you love him let him go. if they are not together then tell him how you feel, but beware of hurting your friend who may have feelings for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): No no no! Absolutely not. Girls always take these things the wrong way, and she might chose her boyfriend over you and in the process you'll lose both of them. I definitely think you shouldn't tell her and just keep that info to yourself. What would happen if you told her? She's not just going to hand over the boyfriend to you. I just think if you told her it would only make things worse. You have to chose what's more important your friendship or her knowing how you feel. Good luck.
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reader, mooh  +, writes (28 May 2012):
If you are certain that there is an opening with this guy to go steady then you should go talk to him so he can be aware of your feelings and how you are ready to be serious with him. It will then be up to him to make a decision.
However as you've been kind of on and off with him since 9 months and now he's fooling around with your friend, don't put your hopes too high, but at least you will be settled.
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