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Do I fight for him or move on?

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Question - (28 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2012)
A female Austria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i think this guy who

lives in my student dorm likes me:

we look at each other and smile like two idiots, he came over to watch TV and chat when we are alone, he liked my pic on Facebook (although he isn't very active on there), he teased me a bit, we have a lot of eye contact when we are alone and when he says something like "i was at the cinema with peter" or "i was at dinner with a female friend" it always seems like he wants to make clear that he is single)

but some chick (I guess he knows her from the fitness room and her profile says that she is in a relationship but it could also be that she just forgot To change it or something) just commented his pic on Facebook (something like "susan is right that is really an old pic of you") and now I am worried that he probably also likes other chicks (one of his old female friends told me that he isn't that kind of guy that pulls chicks) and on the one hand I am sad because I like him and I want to fight for him but on the other hand I am angry and I think I should forget about him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012):

Why exactly are you angry? Nothing you've just said here indicates that he has other romantic interests. I think you're grossly over-thinking this situation.

Also, as a rule of thumb, I would never fight to be in a relationship with a man. Really, they're half the population. If one doesn't like you there are plenty more where he came from.

Just be yourself, relax and enjoy the time you spend with him without attaching too much of yourself and see what happens.

Best of luck.

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A female reader, Pretty and proud United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2012):

Pretty and proud agony auntFacebook breaks all good things up!

Ask him out on a date and define the relationship between you, make it clear you like him and see where it goes, this girl could just be someone he has known from child hood, you don't know!

Go on...

Ask him.

Good luck x

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