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Should I tell her about my feeling for her or should I ask her first if she likes me?

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Question - (27 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really like my friends girlfriend and we have been talking to each other very regularly. my friend isn't a good friend and is a worse boyfriend and his girlfriend usually talks to me about that their relationship and that it isn't going to last basically.

i told her on msn that i think she is a great person to talk to and she replied with the smiley thats blushing obviously indicating i made her blush.

also on friday she went past on the bus i we both smiled at each other and today she told me online that she thought it was funny seeing me because she didn't expect me to see her and she found it funny that i smiled back.

does it sound like she likes me?

and also i am willing to put my friendship on the line with my friend because we don't have much in common and he doesn't really like me because he is protective of his girlfriend and doesn't trust her.

so does she like me and if it does should i tell her my feeling to her or should i ask if she likes me?

thank you everyone

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (11 August 2011):

You know, its a really crappy role to have to be in, the guy who listens to the woman he is dying for complain about her boyfriend.

The next time she starts up about him, tell her that she is never going to be happy in that relationship, and when she is ready to date someone who cares about her, to get in touch with you. But make it clear that you just don't want to hear about it any more.

Then WALK AWAY.

As far as her liking you, who knows? All we know is that she likes to complain to you about him.

You will find out for sure if you are bold enough to take this advice (and yes, it takes considerable courage to handle wacky situations like this).

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