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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey Everyone.Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now. I'm generally not a long term relationship type fo person, but with him, it's been different. But recently, i just feel like he's taking me for granted. like i'm only there when he wants me, when he has time for me. That's all. He never makes any efforts and i always have to be the one that goes and talks to him. Maybe i just get a little over worked up about things like this, but it's the way i feel. I dont feel important enough, i dont feel like he cares that much. As his girlfriend, i should be important to him right ? Maybe i am, but he doesnt show it to me enough. I need to feel loved, i need him to show me he cares. But he doesnt. Sure he's also very busy, as i am too, i've got tones of work and so many other things on my mind, but this isuue has been bothering for a couple of weeks now, and i cant concentrate on anything else.Please tell me what i should do, should i talk to him about it ? If so, what should i say ? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 Of course you should talk about it, that's the only way you can come to a solution.
You should tell him what you're feeling. Do your best to focus on you, and not him when talking about this. He may not agree, but he can't argue with what YOU feel.
I should mention that 3 months isn't a long term relationship, but it could be the start of one.
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