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*awlagirl
writes:I don't believe in waiting till marraige and that abstinance crap. I know that in this era, no one's gunna make it till marraige. everyone has an urg, and at some point ur gunna give. But my boyfirend is still a virgin and his friends all tell him that he HAS to lose it sometime. I wanna have sex with him and teach him some things but i dont wanna force him into somethin that he doesnt want to do. I talked to him about it and he said that no ones forcing him. and that he wants to do it and wants me to take his v-card. should i take his virginity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): I was 17 when I first had an opportunity to lose my virginity, but I stopped short because I believed in waiting till marraige.
It was one of the worst mistakes of my life. I finally ended up giving up my virginity when I was 25 after I realized that all the girls who actually had a sex drive had been having sex since their teens.
Now I'm stuck in that awful place where I can't cope with my fiance's past becuase I let myself be brainwashed for most of my young adult life. I wish sex meant less to me than it does. It shouldn't be that big of a deal at 27 but it is.
I would definitely go for it. You'll always have a special place in his heart as his first.
Just be safe about it! Don't get pregnant, and make sure you two stay disease free!
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reader, rugmonkey +, writes (27 October 2008):
Only take it if you plan to stick around for a while - I assume you will, so have fun if you so choose.
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reader, wawa  +, writes (27 October 2008):
if it feels right then there should be no problem in you taking it, if he is a virgin, he will ofcourse be nervous, but instead of asking if he wants to, why not see how things go if you 2 are lying in bed watching a movie, tice him to it, show him you want to and if he responds in a mosative way, you know he is ready for it, then im betting after that, he will want it alto more.
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