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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend lets me use his computer for school. Well one day he left his email up and i saw an email he sent himself back in June (we had been together 6 months then---it's almost 11 months now) it had 4 pics attached, so naturally i assumed it was pics of us that i had given to him, so i clicked the email thinking "i wonder which pics of us he has?" well it was NOT what i thought....it was nude pics of his ex!! the first she was using a vib. the sec she was giving him head and the last 2 she was showing her breasts. he claims he's so over her. he never answers her calls or texts or emails, but why would he keep those?? i can understand pics of them together CLOTHED because those are memories, but not nude!!!!! is he still not over her, or does he just find her more attractive, even tho around me he acts like he cant stand her? yeah i know it was a few months ago, but during OUR relationship?????? i know it was wrong of me to look, but it was right there left for me to see and click on if i wanted to. maybe he forgot about them? i want to give him the benefit of the doubt...but i have found other nude pics of girls he's dated too......
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno, it doesn't make sense that he has them. he knows i have zero-tolerance for porn and anything like it. it's just wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Speaking from the male perspective - I doubt that he has any lasting feelings for his ex. He is probably holding on to the photos strictly for pornographic uses. It doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive, or that his ex was more attractive than you. It's not every day that a guy gets nude photos of/with a girl, and it makes sense that he would keep them.
Frankly, I would be more concerned if he held on to a bunch of photos together and happy in their clothed couple-dom.
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