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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend gets all quiet and I can tell he's bothered after some passionate kissing and touching. Do all men get like this if the girl decides not to put out after all these efforts?!? Should I stop the teasing? I mean he initiates all this... I continue but I only let it go so far, then put the brakes on.Btw the other night it got pretty intense and he wanted me to give him oral. I want to take things slow... So, I just rubbed and stroked it a bit. That's all! The next morning it came up in the conversation and he said that he felt like 'rejected'. Is that true? I had all my clothes on. And the thing is I want to get to know him better before having sex. I'm not ready!
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 you shouldnt tease him like thtif you said you would give him oral, and then just touched him, of course he is gonna feel rejected. he's gonna think there is something wrong with him, which is not wht you want him to think...I mean, look at it from your POV. If you were really turned on, and you asked your man to go down on you, but he just touched... what would you think?I'm not trying to make you feel bad, you sound like a nice person :)but you say you want to take things slow with him?does he live with you? (you were tlking about the next morning... i didnt know if its over breakfast or something) but yeah, i think if you talk to him about you wanting to take things slow...i'm sure he will agree tht in the end it will be worth the wait :)good luck :)
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