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writes:okay, so i have been goin' out with my guy for ages now, and i'm in a secret and luving relationship.about 5 days ago, a lad added me on msn, and we started talkingall he does is shower me with compliments, but everytime he talks to me, afterwards i feel guilty, like i've cheated on my bf..i've tried to stop talking to him by deleteing and blocking him, but i just cant stop trying to get in contact with mehelp!is this cheating?and i so need motivation to delete this guy perminately because i'm feeeling guilty =(help help help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have now. Thanks for the help guys :)
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (2 February 2009):
 You feel guilty, therefore you should delete and block this guy for good!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (2 February 2009):
 think of it this way...would you like it if your boyfriend was talking to a girl on msn the way you talk to this guy?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks. I have thought about it via my b/fs way, and i KNOW he would never even ADD another girl let alone talk to her and accept compliments from them
i feel so crap =/
And just for the record, i have now changed my e-mail address so no contact can be initated at all
Thanks for the help though guys :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): I am a man and if i found out that my girl was talking to other guys and it was consider a relationship I would be tick. Hey look everyone wants to feel attractive and wanted and lets face it after being in a relationship for a while those little butterflys go away and the getting on the nerves seem to pop up. I do belive love surpasses all that though and even though your man doesn't tell you all the time and shower you will complients the bottom line should be the love. If you love this guy and want to be with him then just be with him and don't be looking other places it is not always greener on the other side. Plus all guys are going to tell you what you want to hear at first. You know.
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reader, Mels  +, writes (2 February 2009):
Imagine for a moment reversed roles: if it was your b/f talking to a girl on msn the same way you talk to this guy, how would you feel? Would you think he is cheating or think it is a bit of harmless fun? The answer to this will tell you what to do.
On another note, did you try to block him and he still gets true to you and won't leave you alone? This sounds a bit like stalking to me, be careful please if you don't know this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit's supposed to say "secure", not "secret" btw..
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