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Should I stick with guys who bore me, or wait for the players to change their ways?

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Question - (25 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *anie20 writes:

I seemed to be having a hard time to finding someone that I can have a relationship with. I talk to plenty of guys, but once the relationship begins, I get bored of them... Or the guys that are intresting to me, end up being jerks and want to get in my pants right away.

Should I just keep trying a relationship even if it's boring to me, or should I just hope that one of the jerks become my prince charming over time?

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

what's the point of getting into a relationship if you're gonna get bored? None.

The "jerks" wont become prince charmings. If you start being a player from the beginning of ur sex life, the chances are you'll always be a player.

So instead of all that, just enjoy yourself, don't worry about looking. have fun and the right person will come along in time.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

I think rather than settle, you need to just have fun. The players won't ever change, so don't bother waiting for them. But I think you also need to a do some growing so you have a better understanding of men. If you're consistently picking either players, or bores, then that's a sign that you're not necessarily ready for a relationship yourself.

There is no rush to settle at your age. You'd do better to have fun, and when the right guy comes along, he will.

The jerks won't change into Prince Charming, and those guys you're not interested in now will still bore you later. So, have your fun, and watch for the right guy.

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