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Should I stay with my (online) boyfriend or be with my friend who lives by me?

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Question - (22 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright, well I am in a relationship right now with this guy I met online a while ago...

There's this one guy who I am friends with, and I just found out today that he likes me, and I like him as well...

I don't know what to do. I can't decide if I should stay with my current boyfriend, whom (no matter what anyone thinks...) I dearly love with my whole heart, and he loves me more than anything as well, or should I be with my real life friend who lives near me who I would be able to see all the time and everything. I never get to see my current boyfriend since he lives far away. And he's leaving for the Navy sometime soon, so I won't be able to see him until 4 years from now once he leaves for the Navy. He's also 3 years older than me. (I'm 16 and he is 19.)

I hope that all made sense and was enough information. Any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated, thank you very much! =)

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (22 August 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntIf you want a real relationship, go for the real life guy.

But if you like your space, dreaming and fantasizing about someone, and the idea of waiting to meet someone excites you etc. go for the internet guy.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2008):

hlskitten agony auntI would go for the real life guy!

4 yrs? Thats crazy. And its not like you have ever met, imagine if you waited 4 yrs to meet him and it turns out you dont get along.

This is a no brainer.

C xxxx

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