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anonymous
writes:hey there i am after a bit of advise...iv never done anything like this b4 so i hope it goes ok lol. basically i got married at a very young age i had only just turned 19, im 22 now and my other half is 20. since the wedding he has become violent and aggressive and has put his fist through my door and th wall and all sorts of places. one time i got inbetween him having a fight wit his dad and i ended up with busted ribs after being put through a bbq and a garden table. even worse recently he has become insainly jealous and wont let me out to see my friends and if i do go out its just constant texts and calls and he gets very angry if i dont reply in 30 seconds! what should i do because im at the end of my tether here also i have started to notice a couple of other guys and i am wondering if i should leave this guy and live my life while im still young???any advise would b very cool.
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reader, Sara-abby +, writes (7 September 2009):
Why do you need to consider whether to leave or not? Maybe it's because I have never been in your situation that I dont understand woman who stay in voilent relationships.
Your still young, so LEAVE! Your worth more than this. Good luck
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reader, smkiismoke  +, writes (7 September 2009):
 no. simple as that
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): Have a look through www.hiddenhurt.co.uk the chances are your situation will get worse not better.
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (7 September 2009):
If your husband is abusive, controlling and violent then you should get out.
It's not about "noticing other guys" or even "living your life while young", it's about your own personal well-being and safety.
Good luck!
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