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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have been chatting with the boy I like for three or four weeks, I told him what my feelings were and now he doesn't text me so often, he told me he just wants to be my friend and doesn't want to hurt me. When he sees me at school he always says hi.. I think he's really confused and doesn't know what to do. I really like him. Something I missed to say is that we can come home from school together. Even tonight I saw him leaving it, he waved good-bye and then turned to look back again. I got the impression that he didn't know whether to go or not. Should I give him some time to decide what to do? Is it possible for a boy to start liking you when he knows you really like him? P.S He told a friend of mine: I think she's cute but don't know what will happen farther.
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reader, littleconfused +, writes (22 February 2011):
If he made if clear he wants to be friends, I do think he only wants to be friends. You are thinking a bit too much. Just be friends, maybe he will change his mind after a while.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 February 2011):
I'm actually sorry this guy doesn't like you - because he sounds like and honest, decent guy. Fortunately, he's not the only one out there, so don't get disheartened.
He has been totally honest with you, and has shown you a lot of respect. You spoke with him about how you felt, and he decided that he didn't feel the same way and would prefer you as a friend. From what you're saying, I think he is a friend to you, and can never be more. I don't think you should wait around for him, because it sounds like his mind won't be changed.
You're a great girl - he knows that. But he's not the guy for you.
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