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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and have been sexually active for about 4 months. But anytime we try foreplay I can never come. Is there something wrong with me? I've never been able to make myself come by masturbation as well. Yeah I've been told that I need to relax etc. But even when I am relaxed, it doesn't helpWhat can I do to try and make myself come???
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reader, valeriemarie  +, writes (22 February 2011):
I think you are just like me!! I can not cum from oral sex. The only way for me is when I'm on top during sex. I think because something has to be inside of me while something is stimulating my clit. So when I'm on top he's inside of me and his stomach area is rubbing it when I move. When I masterbate it's the same way, I have to sit down with a vibrater inside me and move back and forth, as if I was on top during sex. Everybody is different but maybe you should try this it really might help.Porn also really helps to turn me on when I'm masturbating.
Good luck..you will figure it out with time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I mean I've never orgasmed. I have a vibrator, but it just doesn't do anything for me :/ I don't think I come close either... Feels disappointing and frustrating when it's with my boyfriend because it's like expecting something to happen and it doesn't.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Have you tried a vibrator? Maybe watching some movies for ideas on how to do it? Do you come close? By cum do you mean orgasm or ejaculate? Not all women ejaculate, but that doesn't mean they didn't orgasm.
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