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30-35,
*pendy
writes:What should I do about him? I dont want to hurt anymore:(?My ex boyfriend's best friend told me my ex's been having a hard time dealing with our break up.. He says he's been drinking and he feels horrible for breaking up with me and that he misses he. So he begged me to call him and tell him to stop drinking. Anyway I rang him, we talked he told me he's miss me and I told him I miss him too.. I really do, I miss him so much, we were so in love, I don't know why he changed his mind. I was devastated when he dumped me:( Anyway, I asked him to come see a movie with me next week and he said he'd love to. I don't know what to do now. Because I still love him.. and I don't wanna hurt anymore. But it seems like he doesn't want us to go our separate ways, he always comes back to me.What should I do? We're both 21..xThanks..x
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 If your heart is telling you to give him another shot then I think you should. Just go slow and don't fall back into the same routine. In order for this to work you need to start a new relationship, not pick up where the old one left off.
He may hurt you again but the trouble is you will never know unless you give him a chance. If you were hurt too bad by this then it might be best just to cut him out of your life so that you two can heal but it really comes down to how you feel inside.
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