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*haran31
writes:hello aunty, I am a married lady, 33 years old..I am a leading drama actress also, few months back I did a romantic play, where my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) was acting opposite me, being a romantic play we had a few smooches and a steamy scene..my brother-in-law is an upcoming actor and a good one, now the problem is I am getting attracted to him, I like and think of him only..also my marriage is not going to well as my husband is a stupid guy who has lost his money by investing in wrong business!! our marriage was fixed by our family, he was never my choice..2 days ago I kissed my brother in law in the name of acting rehearsals for the next play..thats the kind of excuse I use, now I want 2 know If i should seduce him in for an affair or forget it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): the lead drama actress.........too much drama in your personal life, maybe you are living in the fantasy worls you have created.
whatever the situation, release the husband. he deserves better than you. you degrade your husband and you have no respect for him, just like you have no respect fro yourself or family values.
so much drama, for the drama queen
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): If your marriage is truly one of convenience, then it's time to move on. End your marriage before pursuing the bro-in-law. Otherwise family events will always be a problem.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (26 August 2009):
Your husbands investments failure is so irrelevant, that doesnt make him a stupid person. Your marriage being fixed by your family says you dont have a backbone at all, and cant speak what you believe, if in fact you truly dont want to be in this marriage at present. If you arent/werent happy, leave... its that simple. But keeping it in the family, and sleeping with a brother in law is so twisted, why would that be an option. are you trying to be malicious and hurt your husband? And your "Should I seduce my brother in law" implies he wants you at all. Its acting, operative word, act. Some actors are very convincing, it all sounds like self inflicted drama. Leave your husband, because you arent in love, and thats not fair. Dont exploit someone.-iydm
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): try seducing him, ask him if he likes u, then decide..if he says no,tell him u were acting!!!
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reader, Ditzydaisy  +, writes (26 August 2009):
Dear steamy madam LOLI think you should first of all ask yourself two questions. No make it three...1.Do you love you husband as stupid as he is.2.What would the reaction be of your family if you and this guy did see each other.3.Do you really think it's smart to choose i guy over your sister. Imagine losing your family over the guy and things dont work out. You'd have lost everything and have no one left for sympathy. Your friends would probably look down on you as a slut and your life would be in ruins. If you dont love you husband just divorce if and get on with your life but one thing you should never do is steal i guy thats taken. It's a no no in the womans book of loyalty babe. My advise is to dump da husband and start dating untaken men. It's not fair that your sister should suffer because of your lust for her man. Try keeping a polite and comfortable distants and try spending time with your own husband. A good argument is all part of a healthy realationship (if you notice the word REAL is part of it)! Hope this helps a lot.Oh and keep your hands of the guy ! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): I think you are taking your acting career too far and living in fantasy land. You will be hurting an awful lot of people, including your family, if you do this and by the way it won't do much for the impression you give off to others about your ability to be professional as an actress - it will demonstrate you can't draw a line between acting and real life. If you are that fed up with your husband perhaps you should leave him and be on your own for a while. You are making a big assumption your brother in law wants you.
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reader, silver_1964  +, writes (26 August 2009):
I think if you pursue your brother inlaw,you will lose your sister.You will lose the respect of your family and close aquaintances.What youre feeling for your brotherin law is because of your unhappy marriage,and you feel more lie awoman if something happens between you and the brotherin law,because you arte bored.Forget about the brotherin law,talk to your husband gtry and get counselling and if that doesnt work leave .But no matter what stay away from the brotherin law,it will only bring heartache to everybody!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): Im not going to lie, your behaviour disgusts me. Your acting like a spoiled choice, Oh it was everybody elses fault.If you want to end your marriage then do so frankly your husband would be better off. Maybe the brother in law is acting when he kisses you and doesnt find you attractive.Or has that thought even crossed your mind.the grass is always greener on the other side.
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reader, moni11 +, writes (26 August 2009):
First of all, I think that you arent in love with your husband.... why did you marry him? you havent experienced real love yet. is your brother - in- law into you as well? or is it just for the acting? I don't know , you should divorce your husband, tell your in law how you are feeling and start from there......
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