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Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

Q.   I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

A.   3 September 2009: I certainly dont want to show up his ex wife with the children~!I think you should go back to my answer and read what is happening now an update!... (read in full...)

I love a cousin 12 years older than me but he lives 15 000kms away from me!

Q.   Hello everyone, Over two years ago, I travelled to the States and stayed there for almost a year. I met my cousin there, he is 12 years older than me. We fell in love, in the beginning we did not dare to tell anyone nor each other but for so...

A.   2 September 2009: I feel your pain ,but reality, your cousin/lover did the right thing.He set you free and youre young and find someone younger not related to you and you dont have to keep it secret.I think the secret part is what I dont like.Why did you keep it ... (read in full...)

I really like him but I just can't trust him...

Q.   I met this guy 9 months ago... his 4 years younger then me but i love him a lot. He has told me everything about his previous girlfriend. My ex-boyfriends always cheated on me. Non of my previous boyfriends were faithful with me. Now that im in this ...

A.   2 September 2009: You have alot of issues regarding trust.I think your biggest problem especailly where youre an orphan is that you dont trust anyone at all.You feel unworthy of being loved.You need to talk to a professional and put your relationship with your ... (read in full...)

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

Q.   I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

A.   2 September 2009: I read your answer and I feel for you.My situation isnt as bad because he has stood up to her and I make his life so much easier.I dont know what to tell you but being apart isnt the answer!... (read in full...)

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

Q.   I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

A.   2 September 2009: I have read all your answers and some seem to blame my bf and me !I cant understand why!Here is the story from my bfs view point and people (some her family)from here;after my bf and her had twin girls things changed between them.She was overwhelmed ... (read in full...)

Should I seduce my brother in law or just forget about him?

Q.   hello aunty, I am a married lady, 33 years old..I am a leading drama actress also, few months back I did a romantic play, where my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) was acting opposite me, being a romantic play we had a few smooches and a steamy ...

A.   26 August 2009: I think if you pursue your brother inlaw,you will lose your sister.You will lose the respect of your family and close aquaintances.What youre feeling for your brotherin law is because of your unhappy marriage,and you feel more lie awoman if ... (read in full...)

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

Q.   I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

A.   26 August 2009: I have read all your answers!I ahve to say things are kind of the same but a little improved.I ahve to make this very clear to everyone...when I started dating this guy he was seperated from his ex.He was living in another house and trying to start ... (read in full...)

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

Q.   I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

A.   30 July 2009: First of female writer,you are taking my question wrong!I was not in the picture when my bf and his ex split!I came on the scene after they were seperated!He did mnot cheat on her or have an affair that isnt why they split.The reason for thier ... (read in full...)

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

Q.   I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

A.   29 July 2009: Thanks Gina but it would be impossible to move out because his job is there and also he boughta house.I will however take your advice about going out of town when we spend time with the children and I never ever thrash her in front of the kids or ... (read in full...)

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