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*asierToFallThanToForget
writes:So me and this guy have been dating for just a little over a month. Unfortunately, somethings happened about a week after we got together that put some distance between us and we werent really able to see or talk to each other. As a result, we havent been able to hang out much or get closer to each other. So its like we are not even dating, simply just friends. I want to say something but i am super afraid of getting hurt. I've always had trust issues, but my last relationshiip didnt end well and it made them worse. My fiance simply gave up on me when i got sick and accused me of faking it. I don't want to get hurt or have my heart broken again, i dont think i could take that again. I'm afraid though that if somehthing doesnt change in the relationship, we're going to end up breaking up and i don't want that to happen becasue i really like him. I simply don't know what to do.
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reader, Omegahero09 +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Hmmm. This is tricky, because I can totally relate with the trust-issues and with the fear of being hurt. In the sense that you are afraid of the idea, and have become obsessed with it. If he doesn't know about your feelings, then you need to let him know. And if he repels you, whatever, he wasn't good enough. It is extremely hard to conquer those emotions, and if he isn't willing to help you, if he doesn't love you enough to take some of that weight and worry off your shoulders, then he isn't worth it. On the other side of the coin, if he does want to keep you- KEEP HIM! Guys who are strong, and willing to take you on for everything you are, are very rare. We have a name for them. Good guys. I'm rootin' for ya, hang in there. If you have anything else that troubles you be sure to post 'em. We answer everything here ^^-Hero
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